It begins with this notion that college is exactly like the movies. The parties, the roommates, the freedom. The tear-streaked faces of your parents as they drop you off.
And it is –
But it’s more than that.
Because the best part about it all is you get to make it whatever you want. And in those four years – maybe three, maybe five – you are in a transition period of your life. It’s your first time not living at home, but you’re not living on your own, either. You’re in a dorm and then maybe another, and you are paired with roommates that become your friends or quite the opposite. You learn to become an early riser, or a late riser, because there is a time you’re motivated the most, or maybe because you have to. You take on responsibility and learn to stand up for yourself when you realize your priorities are out of place. You try and you fail, live and learn, are pushed to your breaking point and think the stress will never end.
It’s how you handle these obstacles and find the good times in between that make it worth while. Without those difficult times, the great times would be taken for granted.
Four bittersweet years come and go in the blink of an eye, and you’re left with a piece of paper declaring your expertise in a field that you may or may not find a career with. What you do after that paper is handed to you is completely up to you. It’s how hard you work, how hard you chase those dreams of yours that determines your future.
So with that, I want to encourage you to jump out of your comfort zone often (Isn’t that the motto of this blog?)
Go to that party, even if it is just to be able to say you went. You never know what will come of it.
Make conversation with the person sitting beside you in class. Once you graduate college, you’ll go find a job and be surrounded by the same people every single day (most of us at least, right?). So while you are in college with different classes each semester, this is your chance to meet new people.
Get involved in some way. Join Hall Council or a club. Or if you are interested in sports or getting active, join an intramural team.
And most importantly, for the love of all things college, study for your tests. Although there was this one time, I drove 5 hours to go see Jason Derulo in concert front row on a Sunday night and did not get back to my dorm until 4am. And I had a test at 8am. But that’s a story for another time.
All in all, these years are supposed to be the best years of your life. (You know, despite the stress and 6-tests-in-one-week anxiety). Don’t let yourself look back with regrets.
4 years at University, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
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